Want a More Comfortable LGBTQ+ Date? Don’t Miss These Scenarios:

• LGBTQ+-friendly cafes: The atmosphere is inclusive, so you don’t have to worry about judgmental looks—chat freely and comfortably.
• Niche art exhibitions: Avant-garde art exhibitions are usually more inclusive. Visit the exhibition together, discuss the works, and show your unique taste.
• Outdoor camping: Get away from crowds, set up a tent and cook together. Relax in nature and be your truest self.

1. If you’re late for the date: Notify the other person 30 minutes in advance, explain the reason and apologize. When you arrive, take the initiative to buy them a drink as a small gesture of compensation.
2. If the restaurant is a letdown: Say with a smile, “This place doesn’t seem to suit our taste. Let’s find a better one together next time.” Avoid complaining or blaming others—this shows your generosity.
3. If the other person has a last-minute emergency: Say, “It’s okay, we can reschedule later. Go take care of your business first.” Don’t pester them or get angry—this demonstrates your thoughtfulness.

Middle-aged and elderly dates prioritize comfort—here are recommended scenarios:

• Morning exercise in the park: Do tai chi or take a walk together, breathe in fresh air, and show your healthy state.
• Chatting in a teahouse: Order a pot of hot tea and several kinds of pastries, chat slowly about life experiences and hobbies—it’s relaxed and pleasant.
• Family-style dinner: Cook a meal of home-style dishes together, show your cooking skills and life abilities. It’s warm and down-to-earth.

1. Make eye contact: Look the other person in the eyes while talking, and nod occasionally to respond. This shows you’re focused.
2. Repeat key words: For example, if the other person says, “I like hiking,” reply, “You really like hiking—what’s your favorite mountain?” This lets them know you’re listening carefully.
3. Remember details: For instance, if they mention, “I’ve been watching [TV Show Name] lately,” ask them on your next date, “Did you finish the [TV Show Name] you talked about last time?” This shows you’ve put thought into the conversation.

On a Tight Budget as a Student? These Plans Are Perfect:

• Campus walk: Take a stroll on the playground together in the evening, gaze at the stars, and chat about your studies and future. It’s simple yet sweet.
• Study session at the library: Review lessons together. When you’re tired, share snacks and encourage each other—this lets you show your positive side.
• Cafeteria date: Pick the cafeteria’s signature dishes, chat while eating. It’s cost-effective and comfortable.

1. On a first date, the man takes the initiative to pay. After the date, the woman can say, “Let me treat you to coffee next time” to show politeness.
2. Once you’re more familiar with each other, split the bill. You can 笑着 say, “I’ll get this one, you treat next time”—taking turns paying feels more equal.
3. On special holidays, the man pays. The woman can prepare a small gift, such as a handmade accessory. Exchanging favors makes the interaction more harmonious.

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Short on Time as an Office Worker? These Plans Are Perfect:

• Lunch break date: Choose a restaurant near your workplace, have lunch together, and chat briefly—make use of your fragmented time.
• Short walk after work: Walk home together or to the subway station, talk about your workdays, and relieve stress.
• Weekend brunch date: No need to get up early; meet around 10 o’clock, enjoy brunch while chatting. The pace is relaxed, with no rush.

• Under 50 yuan: Choose niche scented candles or custom keychains—they are practical and hold commemorative meaning.
• 100-200 yuan: Opt for a book the other person likes plus a handwritten card, or accessories from niche brands. These choices showcase your good taste.
• Over 200 yuan: Pick something the other person has been wanting, such as an album by their favorite singer or a small appliance they’ve had their eye on. Find out their needs in advance to avoid waste.

• Scented candles: Light them during at-home dates; their faint fragrance helps relax the mood.
• Instant camera: Snap photos casually while dating, then print them right away to create exclusive memories.
• Portable mini speaker: Play soft music (such as jazz or folk) during outdoor dates to make the atmosphere more romantic. Keep the volume low so it doesn’t interfere with your conversation.